Tuesday, March 24, 2009

The final update, on this story at least. Well not quite actually

**Just a note, i should blog in real time in future because so much can change in so little time. This post will have 2 parts. One I wrote but hadn't posted yet, followed by a short postscript.

Well things are over. Really over. I thought maybe there'd be some breakup sex, maybe we'd be 'friends with benefits'. I really like him, and he seemed to be hoping that we'd get back together again. He was sorry he'd been looking so far ahead after only dating a few short weeks and was beginning to fall in love with me. I had told him i'd give him some space, only to find him calling me late one night. Yes I missed him. I missed spending time with him. I missed being able to touch him (and other things ;) ). But I wasn't sure things had changed. I still saw the issues behind the breakup as being there. I didn't think it could be a long term thing. That being the case he decided it'd be better to make a clean break now, rather than later when it will be alot harder to. I was bummed to be honest, but I understand the reasons behind that.

Postscript: Well that was the situation a few days ago. Things have now changed it seems. He messaged me on facebook chat. It seems we're both wanting to see if we can make it work. I'm going to see him in a couple of days and take things from there. I'll keep you all posted.

J

6 comments:

Godfrey Off the Grid said...

I hope you guys can make it work. It seems like a lot of break ups happen just because the timing is a little off. I think some people just fall a lot faster than others and that can kind of be a bit much at first. I think if you can just really be honest with each other, things will find a way of working themselves out. Just gotta have faith and give it enough time before making fast decisions.

David said...

Very rarely is there every anything such as a clean break. We shall see.

Dane said...

Good Luck, whichever way you go.

Jay said...

Well only time will tell :)

ewe said...

Demand he tell you whether you are his one and only FOREVER until death do you part. And if he wavers from anything but yes, kick his ass to the curb. lol.
Actually i suggest really being in the moment. Be present. There are paths to take and this one involves you and him. Enjoy.

Anonymous said...

gosh sunshine,
...i cant imagine folks in general can break-up just like that!!!!....it always amazes me alooot (i wish i could doit-just like that...in a fingersnap)...it takes aloot of strenght...stamina...call it whatever...but really...