Monday, November 23, 2009

I'm a bitch, she's a bitch, they're all bitches

I don't really have much to say other than what a bitch! Seriously how low can a person be? Ok here's the background information. A friend of mine calls me and says he heard from a mutual friend of ours that there was a rumor going around that I was gay and had been seen going into a gay bar. So i'm thinking who would've said that to him?! Was he friends with the girl who showed up to my going away party?


My friend dug for some more answers and bits and pieces of info started coming out. And it started getting more twisted. He found out a name. Someone that had been suggested to me to date time and time again, but she sounded like a real psycho, so that was an easy out. So was she starting the rumor because she was pissed off or something? But then we heard that she had heard it from a girl I had dated. I had one girl in mind. The last girl I dated, who was the stupidest person I'd ever had to have a conversation with. Seriously, like the epitome of a dumb blonde.

I called a mutual friend of ours who practically confirmed that this sounded like something she'd do. And by the next day, it had gotten back to the person who had originally told my friend the story. Which basically confirmed who had started it. Bitch!



Of course I was freaking out, I wasn't sure how fast it would travel. Who would hear it. Of course I got a phone call from another friend (a gay one this time) that he'd heard it from a friend in Israel. Apparently it had come up at their shabbat table. Some discussion that must've been. So now I know word has spread to 3 continents. Who knows where else it will go? And i don't really know if this girl who started it actually saw something or was just upset that I dumped her ass so quickly. Either way, what a bitch!

J

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

this breaks my heart. i hope that only good things come from this and that this bitch gets hit by a bus

David said...

I hope you manage to keep control of this, but it sounds like things are starting to have a life of their own. Just be prepared. Things may not stick to the schedule you wanted.

franck said...

I do sympathise and don't mean to be rude, but there is a very easy solution to this: just come out.
It always seems scary before you do it, but I have yet to meet a person that has been in your situation (or worse) and regretted it.
Trust me, you'll have a lot less stress.
Best of luck

Anonymous said...

Your intellectual evolution has been years in the making. You aren't in High School, college, a youth.

If your honesty on this blog is any proof, you've basically left Orthodoxy already, holding on to the past to protect your family.

You can't be a little bit pregnant. An iconoclast, you don't mind cruising, gay. May we blame Ishmael?