Monday, February 9, 2009

Yesterday....

I wanted to talk about yesterday. Yesterday was a great day, maybe a bit surprising though. I had plans to go out with friends, which didn't pan out. So i went online. Facebook of course. I got chatting to 2 ppl. One in florida and one here in NYC. I'll call them Mr X and Mr Y. I first started flirting a bit with Mr X, as I do, lol. He asked why I didn't have a pic up, so I sent him a message from my real profile. He asked me a few questions and things continued like they were before.

Mr Y on the other hand we were chatting a bit last week. And then he said something like 'wanna go out for drinks and maybe some play?' I was thinking whoa... before we even think about doing anything I should show him who I really am, that would be the decent thing to do. Apparently i'm cute, but not his type, lol. And that was that. He was a really nice guy, and hot too! So last night, he was online, and we had a really nice long chat, long as in a good few hours long. I know there won't be any play between us, i'm not sure we'll ever meet up for those drinks. So even if nothing more comes of it, other than being fb buddies, i'm glad things worked out the way they did.

The reason I say it was suprising is because I'm so used to people ditching me after I show them who I really am. Suddenly Jay loses another guy from his friends list. I get it, some people take it hard when I tell them i'm not exactly who they think I am, but it's nice when they're ok with it all and things continue where we left off, other than the fact that they know my true identity.

j

3 comments:

steve said...

that all happens to the best of us but it puts all the fun into social networking and it's how we here stay in touch too...

Jay said...

thats true :)

Jake said...

You know it's bad when I thought "some play" meant going to see some broadway play. Great.