Saturday, August 1, 2009

The thing I hate the most about blogging...

I wanted to dedicate this post to those murdered and wounded at the shooting in a GLBT community center in Tel Aviv last night.

The thing I hate the most about blogging is having things in mind that I want to write about, but not actually writing about them. I have a few things in mind that I wanted to write about, some recent, and some not so recent, I don't know why it takes me so long to get it down. So now i'm hoping to catch up on all that.

For starters I should let you all know that my blog has a facebook page and you can become a fan! The link to my page is here, and while you're at it you'll find me here.

Ok now onto other stuff. Well I finally have a conclusion with 'Mr yeah we kissed at the club and I asked for your number and I texted you and then totally ignored you'. It was around 10 days since I last heard from him, and i sent him one last text. Just because I needed to get it off my chest. His response was classic. "Um who are you". I sent him one last reply and he figured out who I was, but I didn't care any more. I got what I'd wanted, an ending. Based on the info he gave me I found him on facebook. My reaction... what was I thinking?!

Ok onto my next topic. I got a text from a friend a couple weeks ago, it said "just hooked up with a straight friend, lol". I wondered, do I really want to know every time a friend hooks up? I mean it's not like we're the Sex and the City girls! In the famous words of Bruno "Oh that's such a Samantha thing to say" lol. But i understand totally. Here I am telling the world about the people I hook up with, sharing way too much information. He wants to tell someone, so why not me?

Lastly my weekend was a bit of a bummer. Well not that it was bad, but I had planned on going away for the weekend maybe somewhere by the Jersey Shore, and up until Friday afternoon I thought I'd make it. And then my hopes were dashed with one phonecall and I ended up staying in Brooklyn. It went from bad to worse when I went to Boro Park to get some food. I got back to the car a few minutes after the meter expired and already had a ticket on my windshield. FML! The weekend itself wasn't bad, I had a couple nice meals, met up with a few friends on Friday night for a birthday party and had some gay friends there too, and went to the park on Saturday afternoon for some suntanning. Central Park definitely has more eyecandy but I wasn't complaining, the sun was out and that was all that mattered :) . Right now it's raining and cloudy outside. Not fun at all.

Ok i'm outta here. Have a great week, and until next time, peace.


Anonymous said...

Weekends are always relaxing (or supposed to be). I too had some great meals and saw friends who I had not seen for a while. However the weekend did have a sour note to it as my former roommate left a pigsty of a mess at our apartment as he moved away.

keep blogging

Audrey the Liberal said...

If those Jews, sorry, Gays hadn't been drinking the blood of Christian children, I mean, trying to recruit children, they wouldn't have had their house burned down, excuse me, community center shot at.

RG said...

It seems to me that "Mr. Kissed You at the Club" guy really wasn't worth all that trouble. Seriously. Ten days? See 'ya!

Jay said...

Thanks anon, and audrey glad to have you back ;) . As for RG, he definitely wasn't worth the trouble and nothing was going to come out of it. I just wanted to know what happened. If you're not interested, then you're not interested, why bother getting the guy's number and actually contacting him after that night? That's what pissed me off more than anything.


Tampa Zephyr said...

Hi Jay... Brighter days will come, for you, and for other gay men and women in the world. We need to protect one another, love one another. We all mourn the loss of those youth because, at some level, we were with them. As for you and your Mr. Wrong? His loss. Definitely.

Anonymous said...

well we wanna dish abt our sex lives to some extent, i suppose unless we r with a committed partner, so i wud luv to hear all the details wen a friend hook up and scores etc and well its fun