Sunday, November 30, 2008

It's all about trust

It seems every time i post i feel different about telling people who i really am. It used to be that i could count the people i had told on one hand. Now i've lost count, and i'm glad. The original guys were people i had had lots of contact with. People i felt close with. A few people I felt I could trust.

Some might say i'm even too open about it now. Too trusting. But i've been coming clean to more and more people, and it feels great that I can be more open about it. I've rekindled some old friendships now that i can come clean. Of course i'm sure there are some people who want to know, just for the sake of wanting to know and aren't really interested in the real me, but that doesn't bother me. I still pick and choose who i tell, who i feel I can trust, which is kind of my safeguard, rather than just telling anyone and everyone.

Overall I think i'm in a good place :)

4 comments:

dpaste said...

Sounds like some great steps forward. Good for you!

steve said...

and knowing that people like me have earned your trust really makes us feel strongly bonded and proud to be friends...

Anonymous said...

keep going, boytshik.
Just don't forget your roots.

Jay said...

Haven't been called boychik in a while :) I wonder who this anonymous is.

Don't forget my roots? That could mean so many things ;)

j