tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7149406204479542170.post1469559533749165022..comments2023-07-01T10:01:54.212-04:00Comments on Living thru hell, one day at a time: My gay world just got a little bit biggerJayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00542320138312107780noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7149406204479542170.post-15493433519447345632009-06-05T01:50:51.629-04:002009-06-05T01:50:51.629-04:00I guess i have left hints every now and then. But ...I guess i have left hints every now and then. But a person needs to know what to look for for them to figure it out, so if it happens, it happens.<br /><br />And yes it looks like in and out is the only way for me...Jayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00542320138312107780noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7149406204479542170.post-24295109768976695102009-06-04T17:29:20.337-04:002009-06-04T17:29:20.337-04:00The fact is that you've left enough hints ever...The fact is that you've left enough hints everywhere that anyone with half a brain can figure out who you are, the cities you relate to, your work, be'er lachai, c'est la Vie. <br /><br />So, does it make a difference? You're pretty open, brave, creative, talented. <br /><br />If you marry someone legally here, instant green card. If not, in and out is the status quo, and the Jewish way.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7149406204479542170.post-69870140745186457572008-05-11T00:21:00.000-04:002008-05-11T00:21:00.000-04:00thanks! I guess only time will telljaythanks! I guess only time will tell<BR/><BR/>jayJayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00542320138312107780noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7149406204479542170.post-60970034281583575082008-05-09T08:51:00.000-04:002008-05-09T08:51:00.000-04:00Ah, but oh so right for me, anonymous! As you say...Ah, but oh so right for me, anonymous! As you say everyone's story is different.Willhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14279473113628377106noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7149406204479542170.post-55317327475682259672008-05-09T07:03:00.000-04:002008-05-09T07:03:00.000-04:00PS, the guy is a little hairy for me.PS, the guy is a little hairy for me.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7149406204479542170.post-35566252178323557932008-05-09T07:02:00.000-04:002008-05-09T07:02:00.000-04:00I agree with Will, and it's great that you feel co...I agree with Will, and it's great that you feel comfortable telling someone else, but everyone's story is different. <BR/><BR/>The burden of your past may prevent it from ever becoming second nature but you have time on your side and a desire to conquer this challenge.<BR/><BR/>You'll get there my friend and in years to come look back and it will be interesting to hear your story from hindsight. xAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7149406204479542170.post-59909631329420296042008-05-08T15:07:00.000-04:002008-05-08T15:07:00.000-04:00Hang in, Jay. It keeps getting easier and easier....Hang in, Jay. It keeps getting easier and easier. But do be ready for the fact that coming out is never really over. As you meet new people or join new institutions, there will always be more and more people to come out to. After a while it becomes second nature.Willhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14279473113628377106noreply@blogger.com